The perils of representing yourself in the Family Court

The Family Court of Australia was one of the first courts to recognise self-represented litigants as a permanent and significant client group.
Research indicates that 20 to 30 per cent of Family Court cases involve a party who is self-represented at some point.
It is important to weigh up the benefits of using a lawyer as the consequences of not following the correct process, filing incorrect documents or filing them out of time could be disastrous.
In this article we examine some of the issues that can be encountered.
How the Family Court can help
The Court has gone to considerable lengths to streamline the process for self-represented litigants at court, providing them with increased support by simplifying its procedures to encourage the early resolution of disputes, and to make the Court more user-friendly.
The Court now provides do-it-yourself kits for guidance and assistance on completing some of the most common forms, including consent orders, financial statement, affidavit and service.
In addition and where possible, the Court provides a duty registrar to assist self-represented litigants with Court processes and procedural advice.
Things to consider about the Court process
 Where one or more of the parties is a self-represented litigant, the principal effect on the judicial officer is to increase the time spent on the case, both before and during the trial and may include more delays than is usual and more adjournments. Family Court staff and court officers while not being able to give legal advice, are required to explain the court processes and procedures to the litigant.
 Self-represented litigants often fail to identify and seek the appropriate orders/remedy in their pleadings.
 Situations frequently arise, particularly in the family law or domestic relationships jurisdictions, where self-represented litigants use the court proceedings as an

opportunity to embarrass or harass their former partner. This may or may not be
Instructing a lawyer too late
We have encountered many potential clients who are either in the process of
representing themselves in the Family Court.
What we usually discover in these cases is that the outcome could have been better, the
matter requires the immediate attention of a lawyer or that it may have been so badly put
together or presented that it is past the point where it is impossible to achieve a better or
alternative outcome.
There are also many practical issues that your lawyer can advise you about, that don’t
appear in a DIY kit, if you are separated or in the process of divorce.
Some tips, traps to avoid and issues to consider
 Agreeing to move out of the matrimonial home can cost you a lot of money. Seek
legal advice first.
 Everything you say, text, email, tweet or put on Facebook including things said in
the strictest confidence to family or friends can get back to your former partner.
 Don’t rely on memory - keep a diary but remember it may be read by the Judge,
so be careful what is written. Perhaps limit it to points that will jog your memory.
 If you decide to engage a lawyer, then make it worthwhile and have a
comprehensive discussion, not just those points that you feel are in your favour.
 Before you separate take photographs or photocopies of bank books or accounts,
taxation records and superannuation papers, so the sums and account details are
 Before you move out take all your personal papers with you, including jewellery
and your personal items.
What many people attempting to represent themselves don’t know is how much they
don’t know. It is like many tasks where experience can help speed the process and lead
to a more successful outcome.
Self-represented litigants often have difficulty identifying and seeking appropriate Orders
and outcomes, which may result in more court attendances as well as confused and
lengthier trials.

It is most advisable to see an experienced family lawyer first to identify the appropriate issues, advise you on your options on those issues, fight for a positive outcome on those issues, and make sure all of the issues have been examined. If you know someone who may need assistance get them to call us on (03) 5941 1622 or email